A DIFFERENT PERSPECTIVE

“One day it just clicks.. You realise what’s important and what isn’t. You learn to care less about what other people think of you and more about what you think yourself. You realise how far you’ve come and you remember when you thought things were such a mess that they’d never recover. And then you smile. You smile because you are truly proud of yourself and the person you’ve fought to become”

As a part of growing up, I have always felt that if you want to achieve something; whatever it may be, you have to have the courage to be ready to face people who do not completely agree with you. And that is what truly sets you apart from anybody else. If you can strive to become someone you’ve always wanted to be without caring about others’ perspective of you then you’re someone who truly deserves the best. I remember my days in GD Goenka which was the place from where I basically completed my high school. My first day was terrific. I met some FRIENDS whom I already knew before and the following days were equally interesting. Now here’s the thing which I learned, the point where you start challenging or start rising in front of the already established group of people is the moment when you face the maximum resistance. The price you pay for being different and bold is to be hated. Though some people only hate you because of the way other people love you.. Sometimes you don’t give any reason for anyone to hate yourself. They create their own little drama out of jealousy. Yes, in your life you’re going to meet people who will try to put you down but it’s only because you have something that they don’t possess..something special. Yes, people will leave you at times but it’s only because they belong to the temporary strata and shouldn’t even deserve your attention.And yes you may think that it’s all your fault but believe me.. IT’S NOT!!You have to keep being YOU regardless of what people or life puts forward as a challenge. Do not be afraid to make bad decisions because this is the right time to make mistakes. This is the right time to fall in love with the wrong people(I have too) . It’s very much okay to feel hurt as long as you know how to rise again because until you’re broken, you won’t know what you are made of. It gives you the ability to build yourself all over again,but stronger than ever.Neverchange who you are so that the other people will like you. Just be yourself and the right people will love you just for being what you truly are. This is the first step towards becoming better than you!Above all the important thing which most of us don’t understand is that everybody isn’t your friend. Just because they hang around you and laugh with you doesn’t mean they are your friend. People pretend well and at the end of the day real situations expose fake people. So pay attention to that instead of feeling down!